About Lynn (Pinky)

My real name is Lynn, although many people have known me as Pinky for years!

Having lived in Baldock, North Hertfordshire for over 30 years, I'm proud to be a well-known and trusted part of the local community.

Growing up and spending much of my life in and around Hitchin and Letchworth means I've crossed paths with people at many different stages of their lives. It's not unusual for someone to say, within minutes of meeting, "Didn't you used to work at...?" or "Do you know...?" Those shared connections often help families feel at ease from the very beginning.

A year spent living in France was followed by several years travelling around the UK while my late husband and I managed pubs and clubs on a temporary basis, providing valuable experience and meeting people from all walks of life.

Before becoming a celebrant, my career was always mainly in administration. Latterly within mental health services. Alongside this, many years were spent volunteering with local men's football teams, supporting grassroots sport and the community.

In 2016, I qualified as an NOCN Level 3 Celebrant and, in 2025, became only the eighth person in the UK to achieve the new NOCN Level 4 qualification.

Professional development has always been important to me because I believe celebrants should continually strive for the highest standards. Alongside my celebrant work, I also serve as a Director and Regional Representative for the Association of Independent Celebrants (AOIC).

Families can also be reassured that I am fully insured and DBS checked, providing every ceremony with professionalism, care and peace of mind.

In 2020, I completed Grief Recovery Method training. That same year, my husband died. Losing him was the hardest experience of my life, and learning to live without him has been a journey that continues every day. That personal experience has deepened my understanding of grief and loss, allowing me to support bereaved families with genuine empathy, compassion and sensitivity.

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Funeral Services

Funerals are at the heart of what I do. I am really passionate about them. You only get one chance at a funeral. So it has to be right
There is no greater honour than being asked to support someone a family on their loved ones final earthly journey.

With so many options available today, each funeral can be truly personal. Whether you choose a:

• Traditional crematorium service

• Woodland or natural burial

• Cemetery burial

• Ceremony in a Free Church or alternative venue, club, community hall, 

I will work with you to create a fitting and meaningful service, tailored to your wishes and the time available.

I work regularly with the bestfuneral directors, in particular, Newlings of Royston, Peasgood & Skeates and Daniel Robinson & Sons, who I believe give the best traditional service to families and who are not part of a countrywide owned group. They are the best company I have ever worked with and I will always recommend them to families, as they do go above and beyond. 

I will travel anywhere in the country, if my schedule allows, and I've even travelled abroad. So, please do not hesitate to call me if you want me to lead a service for you.

You have the right to choose the celebrant/minister/officiant that you would like to take the service for your loved one, always remember that!

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Memorial Services

With the rise in direct cremations, memorials are becoming more common.

It's important to know the implications of direct cremations - they are not right for everyone, but they can be right for some families.

Memorial services after a direct cremation can help families in so many ways.

They offer an opportunity to gather, reflect, and say goodbye—especially when a formal funeral hasn’t taken place.

A memorial can be held anywhere:

• With the ashes as a centrepiece or without if that is too difficult to comprehend. Placed on a table with flowers and a candle, with a lovely photo can really help soften the scene.

• In a park, hall, hotel, pub, or public space, in a garden, under a gazebo,

• By the water,  a lake or the sea

• Even in a small room offered by some funeral directors or a local community hall.

There are no limits—just your wishes and imagination.
I’ll help guide you through your options and create a service that feels right for you and your loved ones.

 

A Funeral Wish List

Maybe doing a funeral plan is a bit heavy for you.

So a funeral wish list is a better option.

Many funeral directors have these options in-house but you can write a simple one yourself.

Letting your family know whether you want a burial or a cremation, religious or  non religious service, just that, takes so much pressure off your loved ones.

Planning ahead for any event in life can bring peace of mind, and a funeral is no exception. A funeral wish list allows you to outline your preferences and ensure your wishes are respected when the time comes. This thoughtful document can include details such as the type of service you’d like (religious, non-religious, or celebratory), preferred music, readings, or poems, burial or cremation preferences, and even specific instructions on floral arrangements or donations to charities. By creating a funeral wish list, you ease the decision-making burden on your loved ones during a difficult time, allowing them to honour you in the way you desire.

It’s a simple yet meaningful step that reflects your individuality and ensures a farewell as unique as your life.